By Rob Ragozzine
Many of us often experience stress because of outside events or
when
we believe that we have been unsuccessful, feel overworked, or do not get
the
things that we want in life. What is it that you want? Do you have people in
your life to talk with about important issues? By talking with others, being
adaptable, being open, and willing to work on your personal self image, you
can
better deal with the tension in your life. Although your ultimate goals or
dreams
may not be visible
to you, you can help yourself alleviate anxiety by finding new ways to
discover more about yourself and what it is that you do want out of life.
Within
Numerology, your Maturity number is one area to explore in order to get a better
understanding of your abilities. You may be aware that your Soul Number
indicates your wants, needs, and abilities on an inner level. Your Life Path
also gives you a general outline of your calling in life. This month, I
would
like to focus on the Maturity
Number. It is calculated with your full name at birth, and your birth
date.
Your Maturity number shows how your Soul Number, Life Path number and other
personal numbers work together. Your Maturity number indicates abilities,
yearnings,
dreams, or desires that gradually surface between 30 and 40, with its
full force becoming stronger throughout your 40’s. Following your Maturity
number information can allow you to experience your abilities in unique
ways. Discounting it, or letting obstacles get in
your way, can bring about personal distress.
Of course, many of us might consider their 40’s to be midlife. What kinds
of
images, thoughts, and considerations cross your mind when you think about
midlife? To some it may bring up thoughts about a “midlife crisis," yet not
everyone, including countless professionals, believes in such a thing. Yet
author Jim Conway says, "Escaping the midlife development crisis is
probably as likely as the child escaping adolescence." Whatever you
believe, periodically reviewing your life, making changes, and finding ways
to
healthfully relieve stress will always benefit you.
Your Maturity number begins to have a more profound impact on your
life after the age of 35. It encompasses those skills and qualities that
relate to your true
self. It brings experience to the table. These are the skills that you can
and should
try to develop within your lifetime. It also represents your ultimate dreams
and goals. While the characteristics of this number
are usually able to be seen during our youth and early adulthood, we tend to
lose
sight of these aspects until we are older. But our lives are always
influenced by this number.
At midlife and all through our lives, we must decide what we have
faith in and work toward achieving that. This becomes more important, as you
realize that the power and influence of your Maturity number increases steadily
as
you grow older. Perhaps you regret
making certain choices, or not choosing a particular career. If you do have
regrets, or unfulfilled dreams, perhaps
the Maturity number has some clues for you. When you ignore your Maturity
number, you ignore a part of your true self. Accepting it can bring self
satisfaction. When
you are living up to the potential of your Maturity number then you are
someone
who has embraced and accepted life and willing to tackle its challenges.
You are less rigid, more adaptable, and better prepared
to accept your limitations. Also, you can more easily find ways to inspire
yourself, and others. Of course, you may
not be perfect, but you are willing to “get your hands dirty” and do the
necessary work when the need arises.
You may
want to look for people who have lives that seem to include the qualities of the
Maturity number. One woman whose story embodies the essence of these
qualities
and characteristics is Yvonne
Thomas of Berlin, NH. A story about her in a local paper intrigued me.
She
was the librarian for Berlin, and decided to retire and work
on a volunteer basis, so that the town could afford to buy books. Often, the
dreams represented by your Maturity number may inspire you to take similar
steps.
Describing
all of the symptoms of a midlife crisis are outside the scope of this
document. However, psychological distress usually plays a role. Those of us
with adequate support systems may be able to handle the stress associated
with
our problems. Those of us who are not
may try to escape through any number of ways including alcohol, drugs, food,
relationships, television, and so on. Finding ways to manage your distress,
especially early in life, can help you to avoid more serious problems later
in
life. It doesn’t matter whether you are a teenager, in your twenties, or
older.
Finding ways to build a support system, connect with others, look for
others
like yourself, and find outlets for your talents, will all help in the long run.
Your
Maturity number can help to indicate your strengths and abilities. It will
be
up to you to find ways to connect with them.
You should
always feel free to be able to make healthy changes, especially at midlife.
Ultimately
it is up to you to find ways to cope, handle stress, and take control of
your
life. At times we all seem to get stuck. Obstacles may appear in your life
and delay
you from achieving. However finding a
healthy way to change your circumstances can be a way toward feeling better
about yourself. Change can be good
and is not an escape when done in a beneficial way.
Living up
to your Maturity number is critical towards achieving optimal
self-acceptance
and living a balanced life. By believing in
yourself
and recognizing who and where you are in your
life, you can build hope and find courage to move forward. Hopefully, you
will
be able to allow yourself to manage your stress, and have what you want in
life.
Good luck on your journey into Soulful
living and Numerology!
Source: http://www.soulfulliving.com/yournumberforjune02.htm
In
numerology, your Maturity number shows something that becomes
important to you as you get older. It’s a goal that begins to manifest
around age 30-35, and comes with the knowledge that you’ve been
gaining about yourself, and what you truly want from life. As you get
older, it becomes more and more important to you. To find your
Maturity number, add together your Life Path number and your Expression number. Reduce this number to a single digit if it’s a double digit, unless it’s a Master number (11,22,33).
Maturity Number 1
With Maturity number 1, you learn how to become independent, a leader, and you want to start new things. You have great luck when you do start new things, and you can be ambitious and outspoken. As you get older, you can become completely independent and rely only on yourself for whatever you need.
Maturity Number 2
With Maturity number 2, you learn how to let other people help you at a young age, and the challenge is helping others as much as they help you. You want to keep the peace, are diplomatic and crave harmony, and are sensitive. As you get older, you find the partner that you yearn for, and the harmony you want.
Maturity Number 3
With Maturity number 3, you have a strong creative streak and active imagination, but it could be a source of problems when young, or you couldn’t let it out for some reason. You want to express yourself, and have fun with life. As you get older, you can be your true creative self, and enjoy life to the fullest.
Maturity Number 4
With Maturity number 4, you can be practical and hard-working. You crave structure and order, and you know how to build something strong from the ground up. You can have problems taking responsibility for your actions. As you get older, you can be humble, practical, and find pleasure in building something lasting.
Maturity Number 5
With Maturity number 5, you love change, freedom, and adventure. You’re not afraid to take chances and be bold and daring. You can lack direction when you’re young, and wander aimlessly for some time, struggling to put down roots. As you get older, you can be a world traveler and adventurer, and are always young at heart.
Maturity Number 6
With Maturity number 6, you care deeply about other people, and will give as much as you can. You live to serve, but you can go too far, especially when young, and can become lost in your beliefs. As you get older, you can create the family that you want, and find the happiness that you seek.
Maturity Number 7
With Maturity number 7, you live as you want to live, and it’s different from everyone else. You strive to learn as much as you can, and spend a lot of time by yourself seeking wisdom. As you get older, you can meditate and contemplate as much as you want, and share the wisdom that you’ve gained.
Maturity Number 8
With Maturity number 8, you can achieve a lot in your life, but you have to make sure you don’t give in to materialism, and embrace your spiritual self as well. You’re hard-working, determined, and organized. As you get older, you can become a master of whatever you do, and gain understanding.
Maturity Number 9
With Maturity number 9, you have to learn to love all of humankind, and serve others. You care deeply for others, are very responsible, and should focus more on your spiritual self. As you get older, you can work at helping other people in some way, especially through healing or philanthropy, and opening your heart
With Maturity number 1, you learn how to become independent, a leader, and you want to start new things. You have great luck when you do start new things, and you can be ambitious and outspoken. As you get older, you can become completely independent and rely only on yourself for whatever you need.
Maturity Number 2
With Maturity number 2, you learn how to let other people help you at a young age, and the challenge is helping others as much as they help you. You want to keep the peace, are diplomatic and crave harmony, and are sensitive. As you get older, you find the partner that you yearn for, and the harmony you want.
Maturity Number 3
With Maturity number 3, you have a strong creative streak and active imagination, but it could be a source of problems when young, or you couldn’t let it out for some reason. You want to express yourself, and have fun with life. As you get older, you can be your true creative self, and enjoy life to the fullest.
Maturity Number 4
With Maturity number 4, you can be practical and hard-working. You crave structure and order, and you know how to build something strong from the ground up. You can have problems taking responsibility for your actions. As you get older, you can be humble, practical, and find pleasure in building something lasting.
Maturity Number 5
With Maturity number 5, you love change, freedom, and adventure. You’re not afraid to take chances and be bold and daring. You can lack direction when you’re young, and wander aimlessly for some time, struggling to put down roots. As you get older, you can be a world traveler and adventurer, and are always young at heart.
Maturity Number 6
With Maturity number 6, you care deeply about other people, and will give as much as you can. You live to serve, but you can go too far, especially when young, and can become lost in your beliefs. As you get older, you can create the family that you want, and find the happiness that you seek.
Maturity Number 7
With Maturity number 7, you live as you want to live, and it’s different from everyone else. You strive to learn as much as you can, and spend a lot of time by yourself seeking wisdom. As you get older, you can meditate and contemplate as much as you want, and share the wisdom that you’ve gained.
Maturity Number 8
With Maturity number 8, you can achieve a lot in your life, but you have to make sure you don’t give in to materialism, and embrace your spiritual self as well. You’re hard-working, determined, and organized. As you get older, you can become a master of whatever you do, and gain understanding.
Maturity Number 9
With Maturity number 9, you have to learn to love all of humankind, and serve others. You care deeply for others, are very responsible, and should focus more on your spiritual self. As you get older, you can work at helping other people in some way, especially through healing or philanthropy, and opening your heart
