Saturday, 29 March 2014

Eclipse Aspects to Natal Planets: The Narrative of Change

by April Elliott Kent

Chances are, your birth chart contains at least one planetary configuration so dreadful that astrologers take one look and gasp: “How do you live with that?”

And you shrug. Because it’s like having been born with blue eyes or red hair: that’s the way it’s always been for you, so you’re pretty much used to it, much the way one gets used to a throbbing arthritic joint. A hypothetically awful aspect is your cross to bear, as Sister Rita used to say. But the very aspects that inspire terror in the casual observer are, potentially, your treasure.
Planets woven together by difficult aspects are as strong as steel. They represent problems you can’t ignore, and conflicts that chew at you until you find a resolution – or at least détente. They describe your defining attributes; and each time an eclipse scores a glancing blow off these aspects (about every four and a half years), you’re given another chance to become a little bit more … you.

So not even the most unpleasant natal aspect is inherently awful. And despite the unease they inspire, neither are eclipses. Some are part of a larger and more daunting planetary picture with global implications. Personally, however, we tend to experience eclipses most strongly when they form close aspects (especially conjunctions, squares, and oppositions) to planets in our birth chart. Each time an eclipse aspects one of the planetary crosses that you bear, a narrative of change emerges – one that is repeated over and over throughout your lifetime.
Unless an eclipse triggers these high-tension natal aspects, or falls very close to the cusps of the first, fourth, seventh, or tenth houses, you are likely to experience its influence as relatively subtle, like the flutter of a leaf in a chilling breeze. But let one of your more sensitive aspects get triggered, and it’s the difference between a doctor checking your reflexes during an exam and hammering an arthritic knee.
  • Eclipse aspecting the natal Sun: If life is a movie, the Sun is the protagonist – however flawed – for whom we cheer. Each of us is born to be the hero of our own life story; but often, timidity or false modesty persuades us to hand over that role to others. When eclipses aspect your natal Sun, you are thrust into the starring role – and if you’re not used to it, that can be uncomfortable.
  • Eclipses aspecting the natal Moon – From the moment we’re ripped from mom’s womb, we seek to reclaim the security and safety that we knew there. We feather our nests, stock the pantry with foods we like, and surround ourselves with people who make us feel comfortable. But when eclipses aspect the natal Moon, something – a new living situation, a change in health – may leave you feeling as exposed as a crab with her shell cracked open.
  • Eclipses aspecting Mercury: How do you define yourself? Usually, it begins with a name. Then, with your rank in the family pecking order, on the playground, in the workplace. Finally, numbers (grades in school, numbers on a paycheck) define you. When eclipses aspect natal Mercury, the god of definition, prepare for a change in your name, rank, or serial number – and for a change in how you define yourself.
  • Eclipses aspecting Venus: If only each of us were endowed with flawless confidence, great relationships, bountiful self-esteem, and oodles of cash! Eclipse aspects to Venus remind us that world will not always give us the treatment, whether kind or cruel, that we think we deserve.
  • Eclipses aspecting Mars: Mars is a trained, ruthless guard dog that answers only to you. He guards you and your home, defends your reputation, and helps you get all the cool things that you want. When eclipses aspect natal Mars, the watch dog is stirred up and straining at his leash; get what’s yours, but don’t let anyone get hurt.
  • Eclipses aspecting Jupiter: When was the last time you had an adventure? When eclipses aspect Jupiter, you’re itching to take a chance, to feel the thrill of being completely alive. These can be times when you overreach out of sheer optimism; but they are also moments when your life jumps tracks and starts moving in a new direction.
  • Eclipses aspecting Saturn: When eclipses aspect Saturn, you may feel worn out and discouraged. Probably, you’ve outgrown your life or are playing by outdated rules. But you’ll never get anywhere by blaming others for your problems. Regardless of how things got this way, what are you going to do to make your life better?
  • Eclipses aspecting Uranus: When eclipses aspect Uranus, you may feel like a misfit – and that can hurt. Recognizing who your friends are (and aren’t), and looking for a tribe that lets you be yourself, is the challenge of these eclipses.
  • Eclipses aspecting Neptune: These eclipses compel you to examine your blind spots, question your faith, and dispute what you previously thought was indisputable. If you’ve been fooling yourself – like a wife who ignores the signs that her husband has strayed, or the man who is disillusioned by his womanizing guru – these eclipses can deliver a wakeup call.
  • Eclipses aspecting Pluto: In each of us, there is a dark side. There are feelings that are unworthy of us – rage, jealousy, fear, covetousness. They weaken us, making us slaves to our emotions and to people who are more self-possessed. When eclipses aspect Pluto, we meet that dark self and the others who embody it for us, grappling with power and the need for control.
Combine these descriptions to better understand the sensitive points in your own chart that will be awakened by the upcoming eclipses on April 15, 2014 (lunar eclipse at 25.16 Libra) and April 28, 2014 (solar eclipse at 8.52 Taurus). If a planet in your birth chart, or the Ascendant/Midheaven, falls:
  • between about 21 to 29 degrees of Aries, Cancer, Libra, or Capricorn (April 15), or
  • between about 5 and 14 degrees of Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, or Aquarius (April 28)
your reflexes will be working overtime… and that arthritic knee is going to be really, really sore.


Saturday, 22 March 2014

Love and The Declination of the Progressed Moon

by Luc De Jaeger, Cosmic Technologies (CosmiTec)

Some astronomers and scientists claim that astrology is flawed because from their perspective there are 13 signs instead of the common 12 which most Western astrologers use.

The horoscope division in 12 signs of 30° each is unreal to them.

Not only do they forget (intentionally or not) that there is a difference between the Constellations and the zodiac signs (which they very often mix up) but they also neglect the fact that the division in 12 zodiac signs of 30° each (also called the Tropical Zodiac) has a very natural reason.

The Tropical Zodiac, which most Western astrologers use, is based upon the annual movement of the Sun north and south of the celestial equator.

The Sun's movement starts at the equator (at 0° declination) at the spring equinox and the Sun then travels through the Northern Hemisphere for about three months until it reaches its highest declination above the equator (which is 0° Cancer).

It then proceeds and moves downwards towards the equator again until it crosses the equator (which is 0° Libra) and heads further south till it reaches its lowest declination (which corresponds with 0° Capricorn) and goes way up again to cross the equator again around the Vernal point (0° Aries).

And so the cycle repeats.

In other words, the Sun's movement along the equator marks all our seasons and builds the cornerstone of the Tropical Zodiac and the division of the horoscope wheel in segments or sectors of 30° each.

Not to make it too difficult, it's this path of the Sun, the Moon and the other planets, which is called declination, that interests us here.

It was the German astrologer Reinhold Ebertin who did quite some research and used the declinations in his astrological work (published among others in his book 'Applied Cosmobiology').

He even used the declination midpoints!

Ebertin found a 'simple' way to show the planets' movements along the equator on a Graphic Ephemeris which is commonly called the Lifespan Declination Graph or Lifetime Graph.

Aside from the transiting declinations, he also calculated the declinations of all the progressed planets and bodies to find the milestones in life.

Many other astrologers followed in his footsteps and have researched the (secondary) progressed planets in declination and especially the progressed Moon (with the key of 1 day after birth = 1 year after birth) in declination.

They all found that particular positions of the secondary progressed Moon in declination coincided with life-changing events and/or experiences.

In particular the following positions indicate important changes:
  • the progressed Moon crossing the equator (at 0° declination)

  • the progressed Moon at its highest declination North
  • the progressed Moon at its lowest declination South

  • The peaks and the crossings are powerful turning points in life, indicating childbirths, moves, job changes, divorces or important separations and are especially telling the story of your (family and love) life.

    We can only confirm these findings.

    Things become yet more interesting and powerful when the progressed Moon reaches its peak (North or South) and goes beyond 23°26' (which is the Sun's boundaries).

    When planets go beyond the 23°26' mark, thus go beyond the Sun's boundaries, they are told to be 'out of bounds' and become more powerful and more 'extreme' in their manifestation.

    Such out of bounds planets (or the Moon) become independent, often uncontrollable, extraordinary and 'beyond normal.'

    When the progressed Moon is out of bounds, it's thus going to bring some events to happen that are beyond expectation.

    When the Moon reaches its rare maximum declination of 28°45' North or South, it's at her major standstill, resulting in huge personal changes.

    For now and in conclusion, keep in mind that the secondary progressed Moon in declination marks highly powerful turning points in life when it peaks or crosses the celestial equator.

    Always look at both the direct progressed declinations and the converse progressed declinations.

    If you find a peak or a crossing in both the direct and converse Graphs at the same moment in time, expect something really BIG and important to change the life of the person profoundly.


    We mentioned that the crossing (at 0° declination) and the highest declinations (North or South) represent turning points and milestones in one's life.

    Most astrology software programs are able to calculate the positions of the planets and points in declination.

    It's best to have the progressed Moon's position in declination shown in a graph.

    Some software programs have a graph with the Equator (horizontal 0° line) in the middle and the North declinations above the 0° line, the declinations South below the 0° line.

    Other programs show the 0° line (Equator) at the bottom and print the declination lines North or South above the horizontal Equator in different colors or thickness.

    If you have no software program with this feature, you can still get your progressed Moon in declination graphs from Astrodienst.

    Just follow the instructions below:

  • Select 'Free Horoscopes' in the left navigation bar, top left
  • Choose 'Horoscope Drawings & Calculations'
  • Choose 'Extended Chart Selection'
  • Login or enter the birth information by following the instructions on the screen
  • In the 'Extended Chart Selection' window, click on the 'Special Charts' link next to the "Methods:"
  • In the 'Select the type of chart you want' drop-down menu, just scroll down and find the 'Ebertin's Life Diagram, Progressed declinations' option
  • In the 'options' heading, make sure you enter a start date
  • Then, click on the blue 'Click here to show the chart' button
  • The (very) light blue line is the (direct) progressed Moon in declination line

  • The graph shows the crossings of the Equator (0° declination) at the bottom and the highest declinations (North and South) are at the top of the Graph.

    Now let's take a look at some random examples to illustrate the principles.

    Recently (early January 2014), Francois Hollande , the French president, admitted having an affair, resulting in the separation from his wife.

    When looking at his direct progressed Moon in declination graph, you will be stunned to find out that late December 2013, the progressed Moon in declination crossed the Equator (at 0° declination) denoting a turning point in his life.

    Most often, the progressed Moon crossing the Equator coincides with separations (in a wide sense).

    Another example is Frank Sinatra , who married in February 1939 when the progressed Moon in declination was at its highest declination South.

    He remarried in November 1951 when the progressed Moon in declination was at its maximum North.

    Sarah Ferguson , the British Duchess of York who married Prince Andrew in July 1986, did so when the progressed Moon in declination crossed the Equator at 0° declination.

    The British soccer player David Beckham , married spice girl Victoria Adams in July 1999 when the progressed Moon in declination was in maximum declination South!

    Bill Gates , one of the founders of Microsoft Corp. and still one of the richest men in the world, married on January 1, 1994 when the progressed Moon in declination crossed the Equator (0° declination).

    Julia Roberts got twins in November 2004 when the progressed Moon in declination was at maximum South declination.


    Saturday, 22 February 2014

    Lunar Love

    by Adam Elenbaas

    Ask just about anybody you meet what their “sign” is and they will immediately say, “I’m a (fill in the blank).” Of course they will be referring to their Sun sign. Why does this happen? How did the Sun sign become more important than the Moon sign? Why do people identify with their solar qualities rather than their lunar qualities? And when it comes to love and romance shouldn’t there be a lunar pick-up line, “Hey there, so what’s your Moon sign baby?”

    Entire books have been written on the subject of modern patriarchy, machismo, and the rampant suppression of the feminine. But we can’t stop there and just blame the ignored Moon sign on the “men.” It’s not enough to say that it’s the fault of men that the Moon sign isn’t equally appreciated. For a deeper understanding of the popularity of the Sun sign we need to explore, and reflect more deeply upon, the symbolism of the Sun and the Moon.

    Moon Symbolism versus Sun Symbolism

    From the Moon’s point of view, the feminine and the masculine are equal and complementary opposites. As Joseph Campbell writes in his volume on Occidental Mythology, “the Moon, waxing and waning, sloughing its shadow and again waxing, is the celestial sign.” The simple emotional truth beyond this mythological Moon poetry is fairly simple: our Moon sign represents our time-bound, mortal, and biologically enmeshed self-hood. Our most simple sense of “at homeness” in the universe, therefore, starts with our Moon sign.

    By contrast the Sun sign represents something altogether different. The solar, like the unchanging face of the Sun, stands as an absolute in and of itself. It stands beyond the reflecting, changing, and rhythmic dance of the Moon. The Sun also animates and perpetuates life, whereas the Moon fosters, integrates, and forms life. We revolve around the Sun, whereas the Moon revolves around us. The light of the Moon is reflecting the Sun, and yet without the presence of the Moon the earth would spin on its axis in a mere eight hours, taking away the perfect rhythm of dark and light and making life as we know it impossible.

     

    Why Do We Only Care About Sun Signs?

    So why don’t the Sun and the Moon get along with each other more in people’s consciousness? And why do we only care about each other’s Sun signs? Well, esoterically over the years the complex symbolism of the Sun and the Moon have often been pitted against one another in terms of a conflicting relationship between dualism (the waxing and waning of the Moon), and oneness (the unchanging face of the Sun). From this point of view the Moon represents the mortal and temporal self, the ego, and its fixation (at worst, damnation) on the wheel of time. The Sun represents getting off the wheel of reincarnation, getting off the wheel of time, and following a higher destiny into the great beyond, into the timeless and changeless void or bliss of enlightenment.

    Solar religions, from this general point of view, all have the same, singular goal or focus in mind—to transcend. This “transcendence game” can play itself out through asceticism, spiritual practices or disciplines, personal-creative callings, a hero’s journey, or the general quest for personal destiny and freedom. There is no problem with this, of course. We need this solar activity to help us grow upward, and each one of us has a Sun sign in our chart that can tell us a great deal about where we will find that personal journey of transcendence.

     

    The Problem with the Quest for Transcendence

    The problem comes when we forget that this solar desire “to transcend” is generally a deeply personal and sometimes alienating quest. For its purposes, the Sun sign journey must see the outside, interdependent, cyclically lunar world as a dualistic distraction, a projection of its own mind, and at worst, a lusty demon or an evil temptress. For the Sun sign portion of our psyche it is naturally much harder to remember the co-equal and opposite “everything is already perfect and eternal” world of the Moon sign.

    At this point in history it seems safe to say that even our best spiritual philosophies, eastern and mystical or western and monotheistic alike, place too great an emphasis on the quest for transcendence. We ask someone about their Sun sign because we’re all interested in each other’s individuality. We’re each very concerned with our personal quest. But if the Sun is by nature more personal and less “dependent,” compared to the Moon, then wouldn’t it be at least equally important to ask about someone’s “Moon” sign when considering a relationship, which is by nature more of a “dependent” situation?

     

    Three Good Reasons to Love by the Moon

    So, now that we have taken a moment to contextualize our understanding of the currently underrated “Moon sign” phenomenon, let’s map out some solid reasons to consider Moon sign compatibility with your lover or your next hot date. Then let’s talk about some simple guidelines for interpreting what makes for the most harmonious Moon sign synastry!

     

    1. Bio-Rhythm

    Because the Moo refers to an inherent knowledge of the union between the opposites (light and dark), it is naturally more androgynous. Similarly, when we feel at “home” we generally do not feel pressured by the task of our sexual or gender identity. Being at a home is a place where we can take off the masks of the opposites and simply “exist.” Think of that place in your life where you can finally throw off the pressures of your work, your “focus,” and your social identity and simply relax.

    This “safe place” looks a little different for each of us, and interestingly enough, depending upon the Moon’s house and sign placement in a birth chart, this sense of an androgynous “at homeness” can even exist in more fiery, creative, and social dimensions (think of a Sagittarius Moon in the Eleventh House, for example!). Regardless, if your relationship does not share the common language of rest, androgyny, and “at homeness” you might find the relationship to be constant work. You may have trouble synching up into a rhythm together. Our Moon signs are like maps to understanding the kinds of rhythms we need in order to work and grow in equal balance with our need to rest and integrate.

    Since it could be said, from a karmic or evolutionary point of view, that the purpose of each and every relationship we ever get into is to help us grow (notice how solar this point of view is, always helping us to maintain that sense of the importance of our personal quest!), then it is critical that we share a common, non-goal-oriented, resting and cooperative Moon space. Again, perhaps somewhat ironically, our Moon synastry can still engage signs and houses that will involve traditional “work.”

    For example, I have a Capricorn Moon in the Ninth House, and my girlfriend has a Taurus Moon in the Eleventh House. We operate a home-based Yoga Studio, Apothecary, and Astrology School. For the two of us, our work is very peaceful, cooperative, and nurturing because we have excellent Moon sign synastry. Similarly, many clients I counsel who are in the creative or artistic fields will share Leo or Fifth House Moons in their partnerships. So don’t let people tell you that just because the Moon sign represents nourishment and “at homeness” that it is not capable of being productive. In fact, many people who find their truest callings in life work just as much from their Moon sign as their Sun sign. After all, could there be anything better than receiving rest, relaxation, and nourishment while doing your work? Enough said!

    2. Healthy Families Make Waves, not War

    It’s vital that relationships clash. That’s how we grow. But, in equal proportion, we need times of organically-arising peace and nourishment. Moon sign synastry points toward a shared area of rest and relaxation that will tend to reappear, as rhythmically and organically (meaning you don’t have to try to make it happen) as the tides. Families with children especially need this nourishment pattern, and if couples want to start a family, and keep their family together, then Moon sign synastry is of the utmost importance.

    Let’s explore this through an example. Dad has a Scorpio Moon in the Fourth House. Mom has a Leo Moon in the Seventh House. Mom’s Moon sign is going to continually generate periods of social self-expression. She might enjoy light-hearted, creative friendships, and she may enjoy getting dressed up to kill and going out to be social. This is how she receives that “I’m at home and all is well in the universe” feeling that she must get in order to be healthy.

    Dad, on the other hand, is going to continually generate long and deep periods of emotional depth and intensity at home. He might need long periods of isolated brooding or emotional exploring. He might need long and deeply affectionate or fused and highly catalytic sexual encounters with his wife. This is how he receives his nourishment.

    On some days, maybe Mom drags Dad out, and he spends the evening enduring the social torture of a night out. Maybe he admires Mom all night—as she shines and he hides—and then she compromises and stays up into the wee hours of the night making love or sharing deep emotions. On the other hand, maybe Mom stays in with Dad and withstands the social isolation for the sake of Dad. If they know how important the other’s needs are, there is no reason this marriage couldn’t work. However, in my experience, this natural Moon square (from Scorpio to Leo) is probably not going to work out very well, if at all, in the long run.

    After a while, Dad will hate that Mom is more socially outgoing than deeply rooted in the home space, and Mom vice versa, and the two will continue getting their Moon needs fulfilled, but they will do so with a lingering sense of resentment for each other. Why? Because the Moon doesn’t like it when its desire for rest and nourishment doesn’t happen organically, and the most basic need of a relationship is to share this “at homeness” feeling together rather than apart. It is a basic need for each of us that is as simple as the newborn’s reflex to nurse at its mother’s breasts. When someone tries to take this away from us, it makes us deeply crabby and emotional.

    In the meantime, their children, who will balance Mom and Dad as much as Mom and Dad balance each other in the family dynamic, may have entirely different Moon needs. How can Mom and Dad create that “at home” feeling for their children (which also may not be very easy), when Mom and Dad’s lunar needs are already clashing?

    3. Spiritual Compatibility

    We’ve already mentioned that everyone has their own hero’s journey to find through their Sun sign. It’s not like the personal solar quest should be ignored in synastry. And yet, having good Moon sign synastry means that you share a common base throughout your personal/spiritual quest. I remember what one woman said during a session I did with her and her husband earlier this summer (paraphrased):

    “I used to be very evangelical about yoga, and I got into traveling and I was reading everything I could about transcendental meditation. Tom was into woodworking, like always, and he would learn new things and get excited about completing new woodworking projects, and for the longest time I couldn’t see any of what he was doing as spiritual. Not like yoga and meditation anyway. But as time wore on and we kept coming back to the same basic places—we both enjoy walking and hiking and birdwatching and talking—I let go of wanting Tom to be anything more than what he is. He doesn’t have to be just like me anymore. And what we share despite our differences is what I’ve called home now for something like the past forty years. I wouldn’t have it any other way.”

    Our Sun signs will take us on the most amazing personal journeys, and yet, we will always come back to the familiarity and nourishment of our homey Moon sign. Think of the people you love in your life no matter what. Does it matter if they share all of your personal concerns and ambitions? Probably not. And that’s what family is after all! Family, at its best, is like a resting place of acceptance and love. So while it may be important to share some commonality in our Sun sign’s quest, it’s safe to say that it’s at least equally important that we share Moon sign compatibility too!

     

    Three Moon Sign Synastry Tips

    Okay, so now that we have a few good reasons to consider Moon sign synastry as equally important to Sun sign synastry, let’s look at some general interpretive guidelines.

    1. Ask and Feel

    Before you analyze the chart, stop and ask yourself this question, “Does my partnership feature periods of getting along, enjoying one another peacefully and finding ourselves in a relaxed space?” If the answer is no, then you will probably find some element of Moon disparity. If the answer is yes (and remember we’re not necessarily talking about sexual explosiveness or romantic fireworks with Moon signs), then you probably display some element of Moon sign compatibility.

    Moon sign synastry is complex. It might involve progressed Moon placements. It might involve house, rather than sign, synastry, and it might involve multiple planetary aspects or the influence of a current planetary transit to one or both of your Moon signs. Therefore the simplest way to get in touch with Moon sign synastry is to get in touch with your own feelings. Does the relationship feature rhythmic periods of easy and soft feelings between the two of you? The answer should be simple and heartfelt. This is the best place to start!

    2. Elemental Synastry

    Water and Earth signs get along with each other, and Air and Fire signs get along with each other. This is not to say that Moon sign synastry is not possible outside of these rules, but it is to say that there is a higher likelihood of two people synching up with each other when the elements of their Moon signs harmonize together.

    Water is emotional and Earth practical (to be general here). Water will want closeness, intimacy, depth of feeling, and fusion. Earth may not be as into it, but they will hold space for it. Earth will demonstrate patience and support for the needs of water, just like a canyon holds the earth. Over time, the water generally erodes the tougher surfaces of the earth. The earth has a hard time changing; it’s generally slower, and water helps it along by provoking movement in a gentle and supportive way.

    The quintessential example is the Cancer and Taurus relationship. Cancer Moon people will have a need for nourishment and intimacy. Taurus needs to be self-possessed and surrounded by people who see their value (which helps them to self-possess). Cancer will value the Taurus, and Taurus will hold space for Cancer’s neediness. Over time Cancer will help Taurus change into something more empathetic, and Taurus will help Cancer shift into something less needy. The exchange is soft, generally easy, and mutually supportive.

    Air and Fire get along with each other similarly. Air needs to dissociate, shift perspectives, relate to objectively, and consider rather than “act upon.” Fire, on the other hand, needs to act, to animate, to force, to will, to express, and to know beyond reason. Over time Air helps Fire to be more considerate and thoughtful, and hence more effective, while Fire helps Air to be more decisive and initiative. The relationship is generally more masculine, meaning it is more active or “yang” in nature, but it is no less harmonious.

    The classic example might be a Gemini and an Aries relationship. An Aries Moon might be compelled into actions and impulses without question, whereas a Gemini might consider everything and have a hard time acting upon a thought. The Aries fire will be provided with an abundance of opportunities for action because of Gemini’s plethora of ideas. Gemini will be provided with an abundance of material for thought and consideration as Aries continually animates and acts from impulse. The two will temper each other over time and the exchange will generally feel easy and mutually beneficial.

    Let’s mix up signs from these examples now and show how poor elemental synastry can play out. What about an Aries Moon sign with a Taurus Moon sign?

    In this example, the Aries desire for action is contrasted by Taurus’ need for self-possession. Aries will continually act out, with very little concern for the stabilizing of their own identity (at least not in an earthy, grounded sense), whereas the Taurus will generally resist, with the force of a Bull, the constant explosiveness of Aries. The two signs do not share elemental synastry and therefore the teaching is much more difficult. It’s likely that the two will simply butt heads, fight, and call each other selfish until they are blue in the face. How unhelpful could this be, considering what our Moon signs are built to do for us—namely give us rest, integration, and nourishment?

    3. Look at Sign/House and Aspect Placements Too

    A Ninth House Moon, regardless of what sign it is in, may share something constructive with a Sagittarian Moon—similarly all the way around the zodiac. There are multiple factors that we must consider when looking at Moon sign synastry. Another example: a Moon/Venus contact in Aries may share easiness with a first house Taurus Moon. The Venus/Aries/Taurus/ connection is being highlighted in a complex way, which may actually lead to an unusual but nonetheless effective synastry!

    Astrology has many different ways of combining seemingly disparate energies into cohesive harmonies. A Sixth House Aquarius Moon and a Virgo Moon might share more than you might think just by looking at the sign/element qualities. The trick is to observe what your relationship seems to share effortlessly, and then creatively look for it in the Moon sign synastry of the chart. Of course, keep in mind that if you and your partner are greatly struggling to create an organic and peaceful resting place together, then doing a lot of acrobatic Moon sign interpreting may not help anything and could, in fact, become another excuse standing in the way of a healthy breakup.

    The Moon Sign in Conclusion

    Take note of what puts you at ease, of where you feel most at home and at rest. Take note of your partner’s version of what feels like home and rest. Be deliberate about sharing in each other’s home spaces/needs with respect, but also do not be willing to compromise your own needs if it is leading you into constant stress and conflict.

    Sex is exciting, romance should be sizzling, and your personal/spiritual journey for transcendence (the Sun) is of the utmost importance. But remember, from the motherly Moon’s contrasting point of view, there is nothing to do, nowhere to go, and only the here and now to embrace for as long as you both shall live. So it’s probably a good idea to share this home space with your partner rather than having to fight or struggle for it!

    Tuesday, 28 January 2014

    Aquarius New Moon 2014


    Aquarius New Moon is a SuperMoon

    The Aquarius New Moon On January 30 is a SuperMoon. A SuperMoon means that the Moon is closest to the Earth and in direct alignment with the Sun and the Earth. This makes it extra potent. There are two New Moons in January. Both are SuperMoons. Wow! This is a double new beginning. Pause, breathe and digest what is happening with you.
    The Capricorn New Moon educated you on power and control. How you use power. How you own your power. And/or how you give your power away. This is the year to empower yourself. Do what makes you feel powerful. The Aquarius New Moon represents freedom and liberation. Liberate your mind first and your freedom will follow. Aquarius reminds you to follow the beat of your own drum. Be unique. Be original. Be who you really are. Take a walk on the weird side of life. You may find a part of yourself that has been begging for expression. This is the Aquarian New Moon message.

    The Sun and Moon are coupled in Aquarius offering you a fresh outlook on life. There are no challenging aspects to this New Moon. In fact, Uranus, Aquarius modern ruler is in a harmonious aspect with both lights (Sun and Moon). This positive energy can be utilized to further your dreams, goals and pursuits. A new cycle is beginning for you. The Aquarius New Moon can empower you to move in a bold direction. You may break free from bad habits and relationships. You could awaken to your divine destiny. You are no longer distracted by fear and doubt. You are ready to be who you were born to be. You are prepared to stand in your divine power and shine your light. This energy promotes your creative self-expression.
    • Who were you born to become?
    • What are your talents, gifts and abilities?
    • What is your point of brilliance?
    • Where do you shine the brightest?
    • What were you born to do?

    The Star card in the Tarot represents Aquarius. The Star guides you to your destination with the gentleness of her soft light. The Star fulfills promises and brings good fortune in general. She inspires you. The New Moon in Aquarius reminds you that you are the Star of your life. You are the Sun center of your universe. If your life is hard, look inside yourself and make the needed changes. Coach yourself. Be honest. Where are you giving your power away? What are doing that sabotages your success? The change you want to see in the world begins with you. Change your mind. You change your life. See your challenges from a different perspective. See your challenges as opportunities for growth. They keep your life fresh and lively. Your life can be much freer than you may have realized. In this way, new opportunities will emerge for you. Believe in your dreams coming true. Believe. When you wish upon a Star your dreams come true. The Star is shinning on you.  The New Moon is lighting up a new path way for you. Perhaps it was there all along and now your eyes are opened.

    “Dreams are the stepping stones of further expansion. Dream on.”
    –Ivo/Lisa Dorr

    Jupiter will be in opposition to Pluto on January 31. On the one hand, this can make you feel very ambitious. You will want to take charge of your life. You may feel bold in your convictions. On the other hand, watch out for bullies pushing their beliefs onto you. And/or observe when you may be pushing your ideals onto other people. You want to practice the Law of Allowing. This is where you allow for different points of view. You respect the opinions of other people, even if their beliefs are not in alignment with your own. True power does not need those around you to agree with you. Authentic power is allowing everyone to find their own path to truth. This promotes diversity. This will support creativity, freedom and liberation for everyone.

    • What do you believe is possible?
    • Are your beliefs holding you back?
    • What makes you feel safe and secure?
    • Are you giving up your freedom for a false sense of security?
    • What would you do if you were ten times bolder?

    Venus moves direct on January 31. Yeah! This is good news. You have had six- weeks to reflect on what you love and value. You were to look at your needs in relationships and finances. You were to look back and see if there was someone or something from your past. You may have left behind. You can include in your life. Venus in direct motion can increase your cash flow. Wise investments can be made. Venus has been dancing with Pluto for weeks. Power in relationships is the theme. Being honest, sincere and in your integrity. This is the best practice. This will keep you balanced. And, on track no matter how other people behave. Still, manipulation, hidden agendas, and jealousy often occur with Pluto/Venus contacts. These negative behaviors will take you off path and into a ditch. They do make for good TV drama. Yet, in real life this is destructive behavior. Controlling others for one’s own selfish desires are not the act of the spiritually evolved.  Giving your power away to keep the peace is not love. This is fear. The best explanation of real Love you can read here. Love.

    Mercury the messenger enters Pisces on January 31. Mercury will be retrograde February 6 — 28.  You can go here and read about how to Navigate Mercury Retrograde. This is a great time to go back over things. It is excellent for research work. This is not an ideal time to start a new job, relationship or project. If you can wait until March 1 your patience will pay off. Yes, the show must go on even with Mercury retrograde. We can’t stop life or business. You have to do what needs to be done. If you have to start a new job or make a major purchase. Just make sure you read the fine print before you invest your time and money. Keep all your receipts. The devil is in the details when Mercury is in retrograde.

    The Aquarian New Moon reminds you to use your power wisely. Be a force for good in the world. Be a conduit for Joy. Keep your ego on a short leash. Live from your soul. This is your creative power. You are master creator. You are co-creating with Source daily. Use the New Moon to create a new life. Don’t wait on other people. Take action today. What are three things that you can do to move your life in a new direction? Do three things every day that are forward focused. Change your life so that you have more freedom. Create the space for love to come to you.  Do what makes you smile. You can use the 100 Smiles Program to make your life your own.

    These SuperMoons strengthen the impact for change. This is setting the tone for the New Year. Get out of your own way. Move out of your comfort zone. Make bold beginnings.  Uranus is encouraging you to have a fresh start. Be innovative. Don’t allow the negative ego to hold back your dreams. Get creative. If a door closes on you, then open a window. Climb out. Move on a new life path.  Wherever the Aquarius New Moon lands in your natal chart is where you are being given a fresh start. Listen to your intuition. You intuition is your inner knowledge. Allow your Star, your Higher Self to guide you to new relationships and goals. Sudden unexpected opportunities can come to you from out of the blue. Your hopes and wishes realized. Your dreams come true. Be ready. In this way, you will seize the new potentials that are emerging in your life.

    Love and Peace,
    Kelley Rosano

    Thursday, 9 January 2014

    Marriage Aspects in Synastry

    by Nadia Gilchrist

    There are only a few aspects between partners that encourage potential matrimony, and even then, they can also indicate other types of commitment. In the context of this article, “marriage” refers to a mutual decision to formalize a romantic commitment in whatever spiritual or social context is meaningful. Note that all these synastry aspects can be applied to straight or same-sex couples.

    Saturn

    Before a couple even goes near the idea of wedlock, there must be at least one Saturn connection in their synastry. Saturn interaspects can be part of any long-term relationship (co-workers, friends, parent/child), but they are absolutely essential for commitment between two people. Saturn contacts are the cement that stabilize a relationship, so marriage can be built upon it.

    If your partner’s Saturn hits your relationship planets (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars) or your angles (1st, 4th, 7th, 10th House cusps) with a hard aspect, they’ll feel a baseline responsibility to you. This sense of responsibility must be there before your partner can contemplate a long-term relationship. Trines and sextiles are weaker, but if they occur in multiples (your partner’s Saturn trines your Sun and Venus) there can still be enough glue to hold the two of you together. The feeling of commitment that Saturn creates goes both ways, but the Saturn person will feel the primary responsibility.

    Juno

    This “marriage asteroid” represents how someone relates to a partner in the context of a committed union.  If your planet aspects your partner’s Juno, they will feel the urge to formalize the relationship. Conjunctions are strongest, although oppositions and squares can do the trick as well. Trines and sextiles are less pronounced, but can still work if they go both ways (your Juno and their Juno trines or sextiles mutual planets).

    For example, your lover has Juno in Virgo. They are looking for a very specific (Virgo) type of partner: someone who will join them as they tinker with, and improve, the relationship. Your Sun conjuncts their Juno. This means that your external expression of purpose and ego perfectly matches what the Juno person is looking for in a partner. Both of you will feel  that you can work (Virgo) together to create a formal union, although the Juno person will feel this most strongly.

    The Sun and Moon

    Your Sun conjunct your partner’s Moon (or vice versa) is the gold standard for potential marriage aspects. The Sun person’s conscious will (male energy) unites with, and is supported by, the Moon person’s emotions (female energy). There is an instinctive sense of belonging, because you and your lover complement each other at a primary level. The Sun person will usually dominate (this is true for straight and same-sex couples). For sign specific examples, check out the articles on Sun/Moon compatibility. The powerful connection created by a Sun/Moon aspect is mutual.

    Sun/Moon oppositions can also create a powerful urge for marriage (you and your partner balance out each other). Squares create strong attraction, but the tension can be too jarring for settling into a long-term union. Trines and sextiles create a nice flow of energy, but aren’t strong enough (by themselves) to push the relationship forward.

    The Sun/Moon Midpoint

    This is the mathematical midpoint between the natal Sun and Moon. It has been referred to as the “inner marriage” between a person’s male and female energy — the union of their external purpose and internal needs. If your planet conjuncts or opposes this midpoint, you are the external manifestation of that need.

    For example, your Mars conjuncts your partner’s midpoint. Through the expression of your initiative, ambition and sexuality (Mars), you are a prompt for the midpoint person. Even though your Mars energy may be aggressive, the way you express it just seems to click with your partner’s inner puzzle. When working with any midpoint contacts, only the hard aspects (squares, oppositions and conjunctions) are considered. Midpoint contacts tend to be one way, with the midpoint person feeling the effects.

    The 7th House

    If your planet activates your partner’s 7th House of committed relationships, they will view you as their ideal partner. If there are other aspects (in the house person’s chart) that support a desire for formal union, they may also see you as a potential spouse. A conjunction from your planet to their 7th House cusp is most powerful, but your planets anywhere in their 7th House will work. If your Jupiter falls in their 7th, your beliefs will boost their faith in committed partnerships; you’ll make the idea (of commitment to you) seem good. If your Venus activates their 7th House, the way you express love will stir your partner’s admiration, and will blend with their view of relationships. 7th House overlays are felt primarily by the house person.

    Note that if only your outer planets (Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto) are activating your lover’s 7th House, there will need to be some other marriage aspects between the two of you. Outer planet contacts can be powerful, but they seem to stir up issues (on the house person’s side) that reach beyond the day-to-day rhythms of a romantic relationship. It’s almost too “big picture” to function on a personal level.

    As always, context is everything. The above contacts increase the chances for marriage, providing both parties have the natal characteristics that indicate the desire for marriage. Although the connections described above don’t guarantee a trip to the altar (or whatever place is chosen for the ceremony), they certainly increase the odds that two people will want to take that step.

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    Tuesday, 10 December 2013

    Gemini Full Moon and Venus Retrograde

    by Kelley Rosano

    The Gemini Full Moon on December 17 is a party Moon. The Full Moon is a break from the intense growth and striving you have done. This year has required you to step up. Release what is not serving you. Embrace your authentic nature. Be in your full power. Time is accelerating. This year has flown by and so too will next year. The Gemini Full Moon says that it is time to celebrate your life.  Celebrate your victories. Even the smallest of accomplishments are worth noting. When you focus on what is working in your life. This creates a current of positive energy. You are a magnet for good things to flow to you. You are irresistibly attractive. People will be drawn to you. People will want to know your secret for success. How are you Always Thriving?
     
                       You can tell them that it is your attitude of gratitude. Appreciation for life keeps you going.  You value the challenges and the adversities. You see them as your teachers.  You see the present as perfect. Things may not be as exactly the way you want it. However, you see the present as the perfect path to realizing your dreams.  This helps you to pay close attention to your present circumstances. This empowers you to discover and create a path to actualizing your vision. You are focused on your success. You are focused on what is positive in your life. You are using the power of your focused intention to live your best life.
                    
                         The Full Moon is in chatty Gemini. You could feel an information overload. Don't allow your mind to run away with you. Mercury is Gemini's ruling planet. Gemini is known to be quite talkative. Mercury in Sagittarius is opposing the Full Moon. Sagittarius is known to inflate the facts. It is easy to over exaggerate both your wins and losses. You may have the gift of gabbing. This could lead you to much ado about nothing. A few hours after the Full Moon, Uranus moves forward. He has been retrograde for five months. The universe is saying, "Take a giant leap forward." Be open to the new, the weird and the original.  Uranus wants you to take a walk on the wild side. Insights and ideas can come from the wildest places. Help could come to you from the people you least expected. Epiphanies emerge empowering you.  These are perceptions in how to improve your life. Action steps in the right direction.
     
                       Pluto and Uranus are a roller coaster ride of change and transformation. You will have good days and challenging days. You can expect the unexpected. Sometimes shocking surprises are jaw dropping. Relationships can blow up revealing long held tensions. Uranus and Pluto bring sudden endings. They can serve up a fresh start that you may not want but sorely need.  Stay flexible. Surrender resistance. Control is an illusion. The only thing you can control is yourself. How you respond to what is happening. Make no judgments. Assume nothing; wait until you have the full story. Use the Four Agreements to guide you. They are grounding in this sea of chaos and confusion.
     
                      The mood shifts as the Sun enters Capricorn on December 21. Happy Solstice! The Sun in Capricorn brings with it a sober tone.  In Capricorn the check comes due for the big party you had in Sagittarius. Venus retrogrades just hours after solstice. Venus will be retrograde until Jan 31, 2014. Venus wants you to review and reflect on what you love and value. What is most important for you? The area of your life that Capricorn rules in your natal birth chart is up for review. Venus is saying it is time to upgrade your life. Align your goals with what you love and value and you will be successful.
     
    What do you love and value?
    What do you want in your relationship?
    What do you need to be fulfilled?
    What is true for you?
    What do you like, enjoy and cherish?
     
                       Venus in reverse is not an ideal time to begin a new relationship and/or a creative project. Things may be in a constant state of flux and change. What you are attracted to today. You may not be tomorrow. Conditions are ripe for misunderstandings. There could be misrepresentations. Venus retrograde can create delays, setbacks and/or false starts. On the brighter side, this is an excellent energy to evaluate what you need in your relationships. Is your relationship adding value to your life? Soul mate relationships empower you to grow into your best Self. Karmic relationships drain you of your time, energy and money. Single people can use this time to reflect on what you want and need in your next relationship.  The True Values Program and the True value lists help you to discover what you love and value.  Relationships from your past can come back. A reunion with old friends and/or lovers is healing and fun. Reunions are a wonderful use for a Venus retrograde. Is there someone from your past that your heart is calling?
     
                      Venus retrograde is brilliant for going back to finish projects. She is useful for examining talents, skills and abilities you are under using. Creative endeavors you may have not had the time for up until now. Venus is retrograde in the sign of Capricorn. This is excellent for reviewing your financial matters. Venus in reverse is good for creating new and improved financial strategies. These you will use when Venus is direct. How can you make improvements in your money and investments? For instance, invest 10% of your time to maximize the other 90%. This would be a nice ROI (Return on Investment). Get focused. Remove the distractions. Be more efficient. Start on your path to financial independence even if it doesn't seem realistic. Do what empowers you.  Here are 25 Secrets to creating the life you want. 
     
    What is working in your life?
    What is breaking down?
    What action steps can you take to improve your situation?
     
                       Mercury enters Capricorn on December 24. On the one hand, he provides you with great practicality to fulfill your ideas and dreams. Mercury can empower you to clarify your objectives. He helps you to get real. Be grounded. Mercury can show you action steps to reach your goals. On the other hand, Mercury will reveal what is pure fantasy.  This includes where you may be fooling yourself.  Mercury will point out what is not working. Integrity is your spiritual back bone. Integrity keeps you on the straight and narrow. Integrity protects you from those who would lie and deceive you. Be in your integrity. Stay focused on your goals. Allow others to learn from their experiences. In this way, you can navigate the terrain of those who are sincere and those who are not. 
                    
                         Christmas could come with a bang. The Moon is in Libra. She is coupled with Mars. They are activating the Pluto/Uranus and Jupiter grand square. Some people may be irritable and cranky. Emotions can be raw and urgent. Breathe deeply. Ground yourself.  Keep a sense of humor. Be of good cheer. Be the calm in the storm. The Sun and Mercury join forces on December 29. Pay attention to signs and synchronicity. There is magic in the air. You could receive an important message this day. You could have aha moments. New Year's Eve may be intense. Mercury couples with Pluto and squares Mars on December 31. You might want your boxing gloves for the party. We go into the New Year with the Pluto/Uranus Grand Square intensely activated. The Capricorn New Moon rings in the New Year on Jan 1. We awaken too many of the planets in challenging aspects with each other.  Warrior Mars is on his war path. He is not happy in peace loving Libra. You could be feeling frustrated. Channel your energy into walking, meditating and relaxing. Doing something you love. What makes you feel good? 
                    
                        The Gemini Full Moon message is to celebrate your victories. Take a moment to pause. The pause is important. The pause empowers your health, well-being and vitality. Celebrate what you have learned. Celebrate your growth. Celebrate how far you have come. Pluto and Uranus are a force for good in your life. Get in the driver seat and empower yourself. Be honest with yourself. Stop arguing for your limitations. Take responsibility for your life. In this way, you can change what is not working. You are the master of your destiny. Take your power back from society and/or other people. Learn from your mistakes. Vow to do better next year. Make a commitment to your success. Be adaptable. Make friends with change. It is not the enemy. Change is your friend. Change sheds the old and gives birth to the new. What part of you is ready to be born? 

    Source:
    http://www.kelleyrosano.com/2013/12/09/gemini-full-moon-venus-retrograde/

    Thursday, 21 November 2013

    Venus in Elements and Houses

    by Luc De Jaeger

    The elemental division is one of the foundations of astrology.

    Together with the modalities, they are the building stones and blocks of what we call the Tropical Zodiac.

    The 4 elements (Fire, Earth, Air and Water) each represent a quality of being and a state of matter.

    The Elemental Division

    Fire signs: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius

    Earth signs: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

    Water signs: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

    Air signs: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius

    Whenever a planet or body changes an element, its background (theme) changes too.

    You can't go wrong materializing the elements in all their forms to find out what they mean in our physical world and how they would work out.

    What we will do now is delineating Venus, the archetypal planet of love, in the different elements.

    However, Venus is just more than the planet of love.

    It's also a receptive force, the planet that represents our taste, that which we want to beautify, that which brings harmony and peace into our life, among others.

    Venus in the element Fire

    Fire is always making itself noticeable and when Venus is in Fire it does not come as a surprise that Venus takes the first steps in matters of love.

    Because Fire is 'showy', you will see Venus in fire and flame when love knocks at the door.

    Venus in Fire radiates warmth and is full of enthusiasm.

    It easily gets excited.

    Venus in Fire may love an atmosphere that represents its element: candlelight dinners or enjoying a drink or meal in front of a fireplace may bring Venus in Fire in the right mood.

    When in love, Venus in Fire becomes very spontaneous.

    Venus in Fire loves upbeat events to attend.

    It cannot stand passive situations that are found to be too boring.

    Venus in the element Fire needs some action and (adventurous and/or outdoorsy) activities.


    Venus in the element Earth

    Earth is the most moderate and modest element of all, and also the most 'heavy.'

    It radiates rest and calmness.

    The element Earth is the most physical element that you can actually take and keep in your hands.

    It's the most tangible one and that's why Venus in Earth needs tangible tokens of love in its life.

    No talks or chatter but 'real things'!

    Venus in the element Earth may love an outdoor picnic or a romantic dinner with flowers on the table.

    Earth is very nature-loving.

    Venus in Earth loves a hug, a gentle stroke or touch on the skin or a massage -- all things material or physical.

    Venus in Earth can be very sensual but it's also very reticent and easily holds within.

    Venus in Earth is very dependable and needs matter to live in and around.


    Venus in the element Air

    Air is the most volatile element that you most often can 'hear from far.'

    Indeed, Air is noisy and with Venus in Air expect lots of talks and chatter.

    Venus in the element Air is communicative and loves to inform.

    Air is very mental and cerebral and, unlike Earth, dislikes physical contact.

    Unlike Water, Air does not feel well when emotions come up.

    That's why Venus in Air may often give a rather detached and cool impression.

    Venus in Air always needs some sounds (music for example) in the environment.

    When in love, Venus in Air becomes very talkative.

    Because Air is a positive (extravert) element, Venus in Air wants to go out and meet people, socialize and connect one way or the other.

    Venus in Air is superficial (not penetrating nor attaching) and therefore is often called the 'social butterfly.'


    Venus in the element Water

    You seldom hear Water, it's the most silent element of all.

    Venus in Water is a very private and retentive position.

    Silent waters run deep and Venus in the element Water just loves deep emotional and spiritual (soul) connections.

    No words needed.

    That's why Venus in Water is very subtle and a little shy in matters of love.

    Because Water is a negative (introvert) element, it's not blunt or bold.

    Venus in Water loves a watery environment (near a fountain, enjoying a walk along the Beach,...).

    Venus in Water needs a secret or private place to withdraw.

    Venus in the element Water seldom takes the initiative.

    Water is the most sensitive element and Venus in Water easily feels hurt.

    The atmosphere is of the highest importance to Venus in Water.

    Venus in Water can be quite clingy at times and it has to learn to let go.

    Venus, in general, is the planet of relationships and beloved ones. It represents all that is beautiful and harmonious and it promotes balance.

    The house Venus is found in, tells more about the environment in which you find balance, well-being and harmony.

    Remember that the houses represent the environment and point to WHERE things happen.

    In other words, Venus in the natal houses will describe where you find balance, beauty, beloved ones and relationships.

    Unlike lots of other sources, we are only listing empirically and statistically researched delineations.

    We split up the delineations in 'general meanings' (irrespective of the gender), descriptions which were found to be more significant in male charts and the meanings that were found to be more significant in female charts.

    This way, we hope to bring some top-notch and more to-the-point descriptions not found anywhere else.

    Also know that when Venus is conjunct a house cusp but not in the house itself, the delineations may not apply.

    When Venus is just in front of a house and not in the house itself, the planetary meanings start to differ because Venuus acts like a connector binding both houses together in some way.

    Planetary aspects to Venus may alter some of the descriptions as well.

    The same holds true for the zodiac signs Venus is posited in that may alter the background of how Venus manifests.

    When Venus is conjunct another body or planet or if there is a stellium in the house Venus is posited in, the delineations may vary too.

    The delineations we provide are archetypal meanings found in charts where Venus is the only planet in the house.

    Descriptions in bold are very significant and almost infallible.

    Venus in the 1st natal house

    In general:

    • charming and seductive personality
    • wants to please and be courteous
    • has a striking physical appearance
    • self-indulgent
    • indecisive

    In male charts:

    • a womanizer or woman-pleaser
    • needs an attractive woman

    In female charts:

    • wants to be found attractive
    • needs appreciation
    • wants to be desirable
    • soft and sensual

    Venus in the 2nd natal house

    In general:

    • wants to have a beautiful lifestyle and spends lots on possessions
    • materialistic
    • self-worth depends on financial and material success
    • shows off
    • one of the most loyal positions
    • very attached to a group (family, partner,...)

    In male charts:

    • needs an upper-class or very stylish woman
    • dresses stylish
    • a collector

    In female charts:

    • the shopaholic
    • takes delight in good food
    • strong physical senses
    • can be very attached and loyal to the partner

    Venus in the 3rd natal house

    In general:

    • The 3rd house is the most unstable and 'wandering' of all and hence not the best one if you want a stable love relationship and/or marriage.
      Venus in this house tends to find love in the 'immediate environment'
    • may have a (very) beautiful voice
    • a graceful communicator
    • very good at languages and/or writing and/or talking
    • the bookworm
    • the story-teller
    • craves compliments

    In male charts:

    • needs a cerebral and intelligent (well educated) woman
    • may find love in the neighbourhood
    • can talk every woman into something
    • can sell anything

    In female charts:

    • talkative and a seductive voice
    • continuously in contact with a lover (texting, phoning,...)

    Venus in the 4th natal house

    In general:

    • home-loving (home sweet home)
    • needs a beautiful, peaceful and harmonious home free from discord
    • increase in harmony and well-being ('wealth') later in life
    • may meet real love only later in life
    • loves to wear casual clothes
    • lives a more balanced and harmonious life in the last part of life

    In male charts:

    • needs a woman who is home- and/or family-loving
    • demanding

    In female charts:

    • very sensitive to the surroundings
    • the home-decorator

    Venus in the 5th natal house

    In general:

    • in love with love
    • loves to gamble or speculate
    • loves exquisite and/or luxury goods
    • highly romantic ideals
    • very creative and artistic
    • may have an artistic or gorgeous daughter

    In male charts:

    • a very sexual position
    • showy and too vain
    • self-centered and self-serving

    In female charts:

    • can be very attractive
    • playful and wants to have fun
    • loves some drama (in the movies, theatre,...)

    Venus in the 6th natal house

    In general:

    • the workaholic
    • prone to on-the-job romances
    • the researcher and analyzer
    • skin trouble
    • self-indulgent
    • indecisive

    In male charts:

    • love often starts at the working floor or with co-workers
    • often more female co-workers than male co-workers
    • less selective
    • prefers a subordinate position instead of being the boss

    In female charts:

    • needs a man who helps her in everything she does
    • friendly
    • loves small animals (dogs)

    Venus in the 7th natal house

    In general:

    • gives a good first impression
    • sociable and popular
    • cannot be alone and needs 'someone else' to share life experiences
    • the multitasker
    • often attracted to partners with similarities (like the same first name, the same style, appearance, job,...)
    • needs a refined partner
    • loves to organize

    In male charts:

    • wants to shine with and present his wife everywhere
    • compassionate

    In female charts:

    • very attractive and stylish
    • interest in fashion
    • loves intrigues
    • cannot stand silence

    Venus in the 8th natal house

    In general:

    • erotic
    • a very charismatic position
    • love and sacrifices (emotional turmoil) go hand in hand
    • may work in the fields of banking, insurances, taxes, ...
    • entangled love unions and relationships
    • a compulsive need for a partner

    In male charts:

    • very passionate
    • may live excessive
    • inherits and/or receives possessions/money from women

    In female charts:

    • needs money to raise her status
    • may sell herself for money
    • money and love go hand in hand
    • may experience inertia

    Venus in the 9th natal house

    In general:

    • love affairs or unions in foreign countries and/or with foreigners and/or with people who have a different social background (culture, race,...)
    • needs an original lover
    • inspirational
    • love triangles

    In male charts:

    • needs a playful woman
    • adventurous and/or sports-minded

    In female charts:

    • loves to tease
    • helpful

    Venus in the 10th natal house

    In general:

    • "Love me!"
    • rather vain: wants to be noticed for his/her beauty, style and/or charm
    • wants to look good in public
    • very goal-oriented

    In male charts:

    • needs a woman who can shine
    • needs a supportive woman
    • the woman helps him in raising his status
    • needs lots of attention
    • can be manipulative and an intriguer
    • loves uniforms
    • feels guilty towards women

    In female charts:

    • never leaves home without make-up
    • a sweetie
    • increasingly suspicious towards men
    • love affairs with higher-ups or men who have a well-defined position in our society or in a group (the boss or employer, men of importance, men in uniforms...)
    • a marriage for status or money
    • a model (may love to pose)

    Venus in the 11th natal house

    In general:

    • sociable
    • friends become lovers
    • highly inventive
    • often a party-goer
    • very idealistic
    • unpredictable behavior in love unions
    • needs a clean and light environment

    In male charts:

    • influential female friends
    • almost always has a mistress

    In female charts:

    • gets well on with children of the partner or the others' children (fond of children)
    • lots of female friends (the 'girls club')

    Venus in the 12th natal house

    In general:

    • poverty in childhood and/or may have felt neglected in childhood
    • loves to sacrifice as a means to be liked
    • secret (platonic) love affairs, unrequited love
    • love = sacrifice (giving more than receiving) resulting in some dissatisfaction
    • protects its privacy
    • very devoted

    In male charts:

    • love and sorrow go hand in hand
    • solitary, reclusive and contemplative
    • the painter

    In female charts:

    • widowhood. This is a position that most often shows that the woman will survive her husband
    • needs a silent or reclusive partner
    • fear of sex (diminishes the sexual expression) but often craves intimacy
    • serves the partner
    • easily hurt
    • too vulnerable and submissive